You found the texts or maybe they confessed, and your world just exploded overnight. We help you heal from this betrayal and gain clarity about whether you’ll move past it together or separately.
You found the texts. Or maybe they confessed. Either way, your world just exploded and nothing makes sense anymore. The person you trusted most became a stranger overnight. You’re cycling between rage, heartbreak, and numbness, sometimes all within the same hour. You can’t eat, can’t sleep, and can’t stop picturing them with someone else.
Infidelity therapy in Philadelphia helps when an affair has destroyed everything you thought you knew about your relationship. Whether you’re the one who cheated, the one who was betrayed, or you’re both trying to figure out if there’s anything left to save, you need support navigating this nightmare. Right now you can barely think straight, let alone make life-changing decisions about your future.
Infidelity therapy helps you process the trauma of betrayal without making impulsive decisions you’ll regret. You learn that the intense emotions you’re feeling are normal responses to this kind of wound. The rage, the obsessive thoughts, the physical symptoms are all typical when trust gets shattered.
After infidelity therapy, you’ll have clarity about whether your relationship can recover or if it’s time to end it. If you stay together, you’ll rebuild on a foundation of truth instead of pretending it didn’t happen. If you separate, you’ll do so with understanding rather than just raw pain.
You’ll stop torturing yourself with questions that have no good answers. Why wasn’t I enough? How could they do this? What else have they lied about? Infidelity therapy helps you focus on what actually helps you heal instead of spiraling in painful loops.
Our Approach to Infidelity Therapy
Our infidelity therapy approach recognizes that affairs are relationship injuries that require specific treatment. We don’t minimize the betrayal or rush forgiveness. Trust has to be earned back through consistent actions over time, not just apologies and promises.
We help both partners understand how the affair happened without excusing it. The person who cheated takes full responsibility while also examining what made them vulnerable to crossing that line. The betrayed partner processes their pain without being told to “just get over it.”
Infidelity therapy addresses the practical questions too. Should you tell the kids? How do you handle mutual friends? What boundaries need to exist now? We help you navigate the messy reality of life after an affair.
What to Expect in Sessions
Infidelity therapy often starts with individual sessions before moving to couples work. The betrayed partner needs space to express their pain without worrying about their partner’s feelings. The person who cheated needs to understand the impact of their choices without defensiveness.
When you meet together, we focus on establishing safety and honesty. This means full disclosure about the affair, cutting contact with the third party, and transparency about phones, email, and whereabouts. Rebuilding starts with ending the secrecy.
We work at your pace. Some couples need months to decide if they want to stay together. Others know immediately but need help figuring out how to move forward. There’s no timeline for healing from infidelity, and we don’t push you toward any particular outcome.
Areas We Serve
Our infidelity therapy practice serves couples throughout Philadelphia dealing with the aftermath of affairs. From Center City high-rises where work affairs disrupted marriages to Northeast Philadelphia homes where emotional affairs started online, betrayal happens everywhere.
We also work with couples from suburban areas including King of Prussia, Blue Bell, and Moorestown who need specialized help after infidelity. Many prefer the discretion of coming to the city rather than risking running into neighbors at a local practice.
We also offer online therapy for those who need flexibility or privacy during this difficult time. Sometimes it’s easier to process these intense emotions from the safety of your own space.
Philadelphia Therapy Office
In the heart of Center City Philadelphia, our office offers you convenient access to expert care. With flexible appointment times to accommodate your busy schedule, we’re committed to making your counseling journey as seamless as possible. Also offering online counseling in PA and NJ.
Ready to start healing from infidelity? Schedule a consultation to discuss your situation and see how we can help. You don’t have to figure this out alone.