
Welcome to The Therapy Gal
Hi, I’m Leeor Gal! If you’ve seen me on Instagram, you know I take a lighthearted and down-to-earth approach to mental health. The Therapy Gal brings that same approach to sex therapy. We talk about sex like it’s totally normal (because it is) and want sex therapy to feel less like an awkward conversation you want to escape from.
Maybe your sex drive disappeared and you have no idea why. Or sex hurts and your doctor just shrugged when you brought it up. Maybe you and your partner want completely different things and you’re both getting frustrated about it.
Whether you’re dealing with this alone in your apartment or lying awake next to your partner wondering what’s wrong with you, here’s the thing: sex problems are incredibly common, but nobody talks about them. That’s where we come in. We’ll talk about sex the way we talk about anything else, directly and without judgment, with the actual goal of helping you fix what’s not working.




What Makes a Good Sex Therapist in Philadelphia
A good sex therapist in Philadelphia understands that sexual problems don’t exist in a vacuum. Your stress about work affects your libido. Your anxiety about your body affects your ability to enjoy touch. Your relationship dynamics affect everything that happens in bed.
Sexual health is part of overall health. When your sex life isn’t working, it affects your mood, your confidence, your relationship, and your quality of life. You deserve to have a sexual life that feels good to you, whatever that looks like.
The sex therapists in Philadelphia who do this work well understand that there’s no “normal” when it comes to sex. We work with people who want sex every day and people who could take it or leave it. People in long-term relationships and people who are single. People dealing with medical issues and people whose problems are purely psychological.

Easily Find The Support You’re Looking For
Therapy For Painful Sex
Sex is supposed to feel good, but for you it hurts every time. The pain turns what should be pleasurable into something you dread. We help you break the pain-fear cycle and develop strategies for managing both physical discomfort and emotional fallout.
Therapy for Low Sex Drive
You don't want sex much and it's causing problems. Maybe you never really wanted it that often, or maybe you used to want it but don't anymore. We help you figure out what's going on and work out solutions that feel good for you.
Sex Therapy for Women
You're supposed to want sex but not too much. Be confident but not demanding. Maybe you've lost interest completely, sex hurts, or body image issues get in the way. We help you reconnect with your own desires without all the noise about what you should want.
Sex Therapy for Men
You're supposed to always want sex, always be ready, and always know what you're doing. When you're dealing with performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, or low desire, it feels embarrassing and isolating. We help you work through what's going on without judgment.
Couples Sex Therapy
One of you wants sex every day, the other could go months without it. Or maybe you both want it but at different times, in different ways. Sexual problems never stay in the bedroom. We help you understand each other's needs and find compromises that work.
LGBTQ+ Sex Therapy
You've spent enough time educating healthcare providers about your identity. You need a therapist who already gets it, who won't assume your partner's gender or act surprised by your relationship structure. We provide support that actually understands your life.
Sex Addiction Therapy
You promised yourself this was the last time. Again. Your sexual behavior feels completely out of control. This isn't about having a high sex drive. We help you break the shame cycle and create a sexual life that feels healthy instead of destructive.
Sexual Trauma Therapy
Something happened that changed how you feel about touch, intimacy, and your own body. You might freeze when touched, dissociate during sex, or avoid intimacy entirely. We help you understand how trauma is showing up and develop strategies for healing at your own pace.
Therapy For Painful Sex
Painful sex therapy addresses any situation where sex causes physical pain. This might be pain during penetration, pain during orgasm, or general discomfort during sexual activity. Pain can have physical causes, psychological causes, both.
If you’re experiencing painful sex, it’s important to rule out medical causes first. But even when there’s a clear physical reason for pain, therapy can help you manage the psychological aspects and develop strategies for maintaining intimacy.
Pain during sex often creates anxiety about future sexual encounters, which can make the pain worse. You might start avoiding sex altogether, which can strain your relationship and make you feel disconnected from your own sexuality. Painful sex therapy helps you understand what’s causing your pain and develop strategies for managing it.
Therapy for Low Sex Drive
Low sex drive therapy helps when you don’t want sex much and it’s causing problems. Maybe you never really wanted it that often. Maybe you used to want it but don’t anymore. Maybe your partner wants sex way more than you do and you’re both frustrated.
Low sex drive can happen for lots of reasons. Stress, depression, hormones, medications, or past bad experiences can all affect how much you want sex. Usually it’s a combination of things, and we help you figure out what’s going on in your specific situation.
Some people naturally want sex more than others, and that’s normal. We help you understand what low sex drive means for you specifically and work out solutions that feel good for both you and your partner.
Sex Therapy for Women
Women’s sexuality is complicated. You’re dealing with cultural messages that tell you to be sexy but not too sexual, confident but not demanding. Add in stress, hormonal changes, and past experiences, and it’s no wonder so many women struggle with their sexual lives.
Maybe you’ve lost interest in sex and don’t know why. Maybe sex is painful or uncomfortable. Maybe you want to want sex but just can’t get there. Maybe body image issues make intimacy feel scary instead of fun. These problems are incredibly common.
Sex therapy for women helps you understand what’s affecting your sexual health and gives you practical tools to make things better. The goal isn’t to become someone else’s idea of sexually liberated—it’s to feel comfortable and satisfied with your own intimate life.
Sex Therapy for Men
Men’s sexual problems often come with a lot of shame and silence. You’re supposed to always want sex, always be ready, and always know what you’re doing. When you’re dealing with performance anxiety, low desire, or intimacy issues, it can feel embarrassing and isolating.
Maybe you’re struggling with erectile dysfunction that’s killing your confidence. Maybe you’ve lost interest in sex but don’t want to admit it. Maybe you’re dealing with premature ejaculation that makes sex stressful instead of fun.
Most men deal with sexual issues at some point, but nobody talks about it. Sex therapy helps you work through what’s going on without judgment. We focus on practical solutions and help you manage the anxiety that usually makes everything feel worse.
Couples Sex Therapy
Sexual problems in relationships are rarely about just one person. Maybe one of you wants sex more often than the other. Maybe you’ve fallen into a routine that feels boring or disconnected. Maybe you’re avoiding intimacy altogether because it’s become a source of stress and disappointment .
Sexual issues affect your entire relationship, not just what happens in bed. You might feel rejected, inadequate, or frustrated. Your partner might feel pressured, misunderstood, or guilty. These feelings spill over into daily life, creating distance and resentment that makes intimacy even harder to achieve.
Couples sex therapy helps you understand each other’s needs, desires, and barriers without judgment or blame. We work on communication skills, timing, and practical solutions that work for both of you. When sexual intimacy improves, it strengthens your entire relationship and helps you feel more connected as partners.
LGBTQ+ Sex Therapy
LGBTQ+ sex therapy helps when you’re navigating sexuality and gender identity in a world that still makes assumptions about what’s ‘normal.’ Maybe you’re questioning your sexual orientation or gender identity. Maybe you’re dealing with internalized shame about who you’re attracted to.
Your sexual health matters, no matter who you are or who you love. You might be dealing with body dysphoria that makes intimacy hard. You might be exploring your sexuality for the first time. You might need help talking to partners about what you need.
We get that LGBTQ+ people face different challenges. You deserve sexual health care from someone who actually understands your life.
Sex Addiction Therapy
Your sexual behavior feels completely out of control. You make promises to yourself that you’ll stop, but you keep doing things that hurt your relationships, career, or self-respect. This isn’t about having a high sex drive. This is about feeling like you can’t stop even when you want to.
Sex addiction can look like compulsive pornography use, serial affairs, risky hookups, or spending money you don’t have on sex workers. You feel shame after acting out, swear you’ll never do it again, then find yourself right back where you started.
We help you understand what’s driving these behaviors and develop healthier ways to cope. The goal is breaking the shame cycle and creating a sexual life that feels healthy instead of destructive.
Sexual Trauma Therapy
Sexual trauma therapy helps when past experiences are affecting your current sexual life. This might be childhood sexual abuse, adult sexual assault, medical trauma, or anything that created negative associations with sexual touch or intimacy.
Sexual trauma doesn’t always look obvious. You might freeze up when someone touches you in certain ways, dissociate during sex, or avoid sexual situations altogether without knowing why. Some people become hypersexual as a way of regaining control, others lose interest in sex completely. All of these responses are normal, not personal failures.
We help you understand how trauma is showing up in your sexual life and develop strategies for healing. Sexual trauma therapy takes time and goes at your pace. You’re in control of what we talk about and when.

Sex Therapy FAQs
How do I know if I need sex therapy?
You may benefit from sex therapy if concerns about desire, intimacy, arousal, pain, or communication around sex are causing distress or confusion. Many people seek support when sex feels stressful, disconnected, or different than they want it to be. If you are unsure, learning more about how to know if you need sex therapy can help clarify next steps.
Is sex therapy awkward?
It is common to worry that sex therapy will feel uncomfortable at first. Talking about sex openly can feel vulnerable, especially if you have never done it before. Most clients find that once they understand what sex therapy actually looks like, the awkwardness fades quickly.
Can I go to sex therapy alone?
Yes. You do not need to be in a relationship or bring a partner to sex therapy. Many people go to sex therapy on their own to explore desire, confidence, sexual identity, past experiences, or personal concerns. You can always decide later if involving a partner feels helpful.
What should I expect in my first sex therapy session?
Your first session usually starts with simple questions about what brought you in and what feels most important right now. Your therapist will ask about your concerns, history, relationship, and goals so they can understand the full picture and how to help. It’s a chance to get comfortable, share at your own pace, and start shaping what therapy might look like for you. Learn more about what to expect in your first sex therapy session here.
How long does sex therapy take?
Most people see meaningful progress in sex therapy within 8 to 20 sessions, but there’s no one‑size‑fits‑all timeline. It depends on what you’re working on and how long the concern has been present. Some issues resolve more quickly, while others that involve deeper patterns, relationship dynamics, or trauma may take longer. You can read more about how long sex therapy takes.
Can sex therapy be done online?
Yes, sex therapy can be done online through secure video sessions. Many people find it easier to open up when they are at home. Online therapy also makes it simpler to fit sessions into your schedule. Both online and in-person sessions can be effective when you work with a therapist you trust.
How much does sex therapy cost?
Sex therapy in Philadelphia typically costs between $120 and $300+ per session, depending on the therapist’s experience, training, and whether you’re coming alone or with a partner. Many sex therapists are out of network with insurance, but they often provide a superbill that you can submit to your insurer for possible reimbursement. For a more detailed breakdown, check out are page on how much sex therapy costs in Philadelphia.
Do you take insurance?
We are a private pay practice and don't bill insurance directly, but we provide superbills for out-of-network reimbursement. Many of our clients get back a significant portion of their session fees from their insurance company. Check out our therapy rates and insurance FAQ for details.
What's the difference between insurance and private pay therapy?
Insurance therapy has lower copays but limits your options and requires a mental health diagnosis on your permanent medical record. Private pay costs more upfront but gives you more control over your treatment, better privacy, and access to therapists who might not take insurance. We wrote a full breakdown of insurance vs private pay therapy here.
Is sex therapy worth it?
For most people dealing with sexual concerns, sex therapy can be very helpful if sexual concerns are affecting your relationship, confidence, or overall quality of life. Whether it’s worth it for you depends on your goals, how motivated you are to work on the issue, and whether you find a therapist who feels like a good fit. Read more about whether sex therapy is worth it.
Philadelphia Therapy Office
In the heart of Center City Philadelphia, our office offers you convenient access to expert care. With flexible appointment times to accommodate your busy schedule, we’re committed to making your therapy journey as seamless as possible. Also offering online therapy in PA and NJ.
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